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First 10 questions
to ask your parent.

Grouped by life stage. Ten to fifteen minutes at a time. Recorded in their own voice.

Ten questions. Ten to fifteen minutes at a time. Two questions per sitting is plenty; stop while they still want to keep going, and come back next week. The goal is not to cover their life. It is to get their voice telling one true story, then another.

Childhood

What did your bedroom look like when you were ten?

Rooms are easy to describe and full of detail. This one warms them up.

What did you get in trouble for?

Everyone has one. It usually comes with a laugh and a name you haven't heard before.

Family

What do you remember about your own grandparents?

This reaches back a generation you may never have met.

What was Sunday like in your house?

Rituals hold the texture of a family: the food, the radio, who sat where.

Work

What was your first job, and what did it pay?

A concrete question with a number in it. Numbers unlock stories.

What were you proudest of at work?

Not the title. The thing they fixed, built or got right when it mattered.

Love

How did you know?

Ask it about the person they married, or nearly did. Then be quiet.

What did you argue about, and how did you make up?

The honest version of a love story, and the one children are rarely told.

Advice

What do you wish someone had told you at 25?

The answer is usually the thing they most want you to know.

What do you want us to remember about you?

Save this one for last. Let them answer it in their own words, in their own voice.

The easiest way to record the answers

Set up Call Senarra. Your parent calls (978) 736-2772 from any phone — a landline works — enters your family's six-digit code, and Senarra asks gentle questions and saves every answer in their own voice to your private archive. There is nothing for them to install, no account, no password. You create the code once in the app and read it to them over the phone.

Set up Call Senarra — free, no card →

Prefer to ask in person? Put your phone on the table, open Senarra, and tap record. Or take the questions with you: the free 49-question kit is a printable PDF.

Questions people ask

How long should each session be?

Ten to fifteen minutes. One or two questions, then stop while it is still easy. Short sessions get repeated; long ones get postponed.

Does my parent need to download an app?

No. With Call Senarra your parent dials an ordinary phone number from any phone, including a landline, enters your family's six-digit code, and just talks. Senarra asks the questions and saves their answers, in their voice, to your family's private archive.

What if they don't like a question?

Skip it. Nothing is timed and there is no list to finish. The point is the voice and the story, not coverage.

Where do the recordings go?

Into your private family archive in Senarra. They are never sold or used to train AI, and you can export all of them at any time. See senarra.app/privacy/where-your-recordings-go.

See also: 49 questions to ask your parents (free PDF) · Senarra vs Remento vs Storyworth · Pricing